Here’s why you suck at dating

“Seriously, why do I suck at dating?” is something I get asked so very often, that I figured it was

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Podcast Ep.122 – 7 Things That Can Ruin A Relationship

In this week’s episode we discuss 7 things we think can ruin a relationship. Whether it’s incompatible sex drives, a

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10 Dating Questions I Always Get Asked, Answered

Hi, I’m Demetrius. I’m  a Sex, Dating, and Relationship advice writer and podcaster. You might recognize my work from this

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Can I ask out a guy I unintentionally ghosted a year ago?

atlisse asks: We met online and agreed to meet for coffee. The date went amazing and we definitely had chemistry. We

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If they want to be friends before dating, should I still see them?

I’d heard from an early age that the best way to build a long and happy relationship was to establish

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7 things you can do when you’re “too busy” to date

I’m a pretty busy guy, and I’m guessing that you, like many modern daters, are pretty busy too. Between my

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Guest Post – 6 Ways Guys Ruin A First Date Before It Even Happens

For a woman in the online dating community, it’s easy to become discouraged with the numerous faux pas men are

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Podcast Ep.121 – Why do some people rush into relationships?

This week we wanted to talk about rushing into relationships. What is it that makes people want to rush into

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How do you move from matching on a dating app, to texting, to a first date?

Let’s take a little break from dating and relationship advice that deals with the tough issues, and let’s just talk

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Have you ever slept with your roommate? What should I do?

Brian from Ohio asks: I met a girl a few years ago. I was attracted to her, but she had

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Can you date someone if you have nothing in common?

Can you date someone if you have nothing in common?   It’s a question I’ve probably touched on in the

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Podcast Ep.120 – A listener asks: How soon is too soon on a road trip?

  In this episode, we open up the Tao of Indifference hotline to answer a listener question about a very

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If she is always the first to view my Snapchat story. Is she interested?

youngth asks: If a girl is repeatedly the first to view your snapchat story, is that any indication of interest?

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Wanted to go for a kiss, couldn’t muster it. What should I do?

JawnOfArc asks: So tonight was my second date with a girl I started seeing. The first date went quite well;

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Podcast Ep.119 – How to deal with dating flakey people?

Dating flakey people really are the worst. Unreliable, infuriating, and inconsiderate. The problem is, we can’t completely avoid people flaking

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Would you date someone if your friends & family don’t approve?

byrnj019 asks: Would you date someone if your family doesn’t approve?

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Any advice for loosening up on a first date?

siguelacumbia asks: Any advice for loosening up on a first date and being less serious and non-talkative? Any advice for

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Let’s prep for your online date!

Whether you’re trying out online dating for the first time, or an old pro who needs a little advice about

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Podcast Ep.118 – Should you tell them you’ve met someone else?

We’re back, did you miss us? For the first episode of 2017 we wanted to answer a question: If you’re dating

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How would you feel if your girlfriend apologized for treating you poorly?

wfsupermansock asks: How would you feel if your girlfriend apologized to you for treating you poorly and being in a

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Is it normal to ask if she’s seeing other guys?

ThatsFuckingObvious asks: Is it normal to ask if she’s seeing other guys? Like just nonchalantly I don’t wanna make a

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Is a long distance relationship worth it?

DinoSorceress11h asks: I’ve been home for the holidays (I go to school about 2000 km away from home) and met

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